“All In”– Reflections from D6 2023

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Listen, O Israel! The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength (Deuteronomy 6:4).

“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments (Matthew 22:37-40).

I recently returned home from Orlando where I spent three days with pastors, ministers, and leaders from all over North America, at the D6 Conference. On the first night, Rabbi Jacob Rosenberg opened the main stage with the powerful verses quoted above. He opened with something along the lines, “I’m getting ready to say something that was said first by Moses and then by Jesus so I’m following some big names.”

Rabbi Rosenberg explained that Jewish people call the first verse the Great Shema or the Great Listening. These words are repeated often throughout their worship services and as prayers throughout the day.

When Jesus was asked, “What is the greatest commandment?” He repeated the Great Shema and He added the second line “to love your neighbor as yourself.”

And then He said the thing that really takes the cake. He said, “All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” In other words, He distilled all of the Scripture they had been given down to these commandments. It was like He said, “Start here.”

Rabbi Rosenberg wanted to be clear that when the Shema says to love God with “all” your heart, soul, and strength, it really means all. To “love the Lord” with “all your heart” literally means with “all your inner parts.” The word soul in this verse refers to means “breath” literally implying, if we didn’t love Him, we wouldn’t be able to breathe.

What if we took that seriously? What if we truly were “all in”?

The theme of this year’s D6 Conference was “All In.” The challenge to both ministers and parents alike. What if we took these verses seriously and we were all in our love for God and our love for others? What would that look like?

If you are like me, immediately a sense of feeling overwhelmed at the prospect begins to set in. To be that enveloped in my love for God and others feel nearly impossible to me. Throughout the conference, we explored ways we can get distracted from being all in, ways we can get weary from being all in, and ways we can get thwarted from being all in. And it felt like a lot… like an algebra problem with no solution.

Right up until the final speaker, the speaker who reminded us of some very important truths, truths that take the impossible for us and reframe them in the proper light of Christ.

So, weary parent, tired minister, despondent disciple, listen to these reminders from the final speaker, Chrystal Evans Hurst.

First, Chrystal reminded us of this story from some other disciples who presented Jesus with the impossible problem in Luke 9.

Late in the afternoon the twelve disciples came to him and said, “Send the crowds away to the nearby villages and farms, so they can find food and lodging for the night. There is nothing to eat here in this remote place.” But Jesus said, “You feed them.” “But we have only five loaves of bread and two fish,” they answered. “Or are you expecting us to go and buy enough food for this whole crowd?”

You feed them. You be all in.

The disciples didn’t know what to do with that. They presented a problem, Jesus offered a solution, and the disciples didn’t know what to do. “When we give God problems and He gives us solutions, we start listing all the things we don’t have, as if His solution ever started with what we had” Why is that? Chrystal goes on, “The answer to our problems, the solution, the miracles, often follow our obedience. He is asking to partner with us.”

Jesus never intended the disciples to be able to feed those people APART FROM HIM. He knew all along that the solution was that the disciples would feed the people but He would enable them to do so. “God is not concerned with what you wish you had. It’s not your power that gives you that anyway. It is His power.”

And finally, this challenge, “What if the thing you are wishing away and praying away is exactly the thing you need to grow, to become more like Jesus?”

We are human beings. Apart from the grace of God, we cannot be “all in.” But because of the grace of God, we can’t not be “all in!” His grace compels us and His strength sustains us.

If we are weary, tired, and despondent; if being “all in” sounds utterly overwhelming and exhausting, it’s probably in our best interest to sit down with Jesus and say, “What should I do?” And no matter what He says, just say “Okay.” Don’t explain why you can’t or the resources you lack. Just obey to the best of your ability and be willing to be all in. Because He already is. He’s all in on you and He is able to do immeasurably more than we can think or imagine.

For More Information about D6 Family and D6 Conference, go to d6family.com. Next year, the D6 Conference will be in Orlando, April 2-4. It would be wonderful to share the experience with you!


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  • Christina Embree is a minister of generational discipleship for the Great Lakes Conference of the Brethren in Christ and a church planter and new gen coordinator at Plowshares Brethren in Christ in Lexington, KY. She earned a Master of Arts in Ministry, Children, Youth and Family focus from Wesley Seminary at Indiana Wesleyan University (IWU) and is currently a doctoral candidate of Ministry in Spiritual Formation at IWU. Christina has a heart to see homes as the primary place for faith formation and spiritual growth for kids, parents, grandparents and every other member of the family. Her husband, Luke, is the pastor/church planter at Plowshares Brethren in Christ and they have three children Hannah, Naomi, and Caleb. She writes at www.refocusministry.org and is a contributing writer at D6 Family, ChurchLeaders.com, and Seedbed. You can follow her on FB: ReFocus Ministry and Twitter: @EmbreeChristina