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Marriage Lessons from Ice Cream and a Dented Car

Marriage Lessons from Ice Cream and a Dented Car

The year was 2009. I was waiting to hear back from a publisher about my first manuscript. I had made it miraculously through acquisition board meetings and was awaiting the final yay or nay. When I received the news that my book 31 Days to a Younger You would indeed be published, I was overjoyed! The day I signed my contract, I said, “Let’s celebrate and get some ice cream!” I wasn’t even suggesting going out for ice cream—just picking up a couple of gallons from the corner grocery store and...

What Are Your Kids Watching?
What Are Your Kids Watching?

You might not be old enough to remember this phrase: “It’s 10 pm. Do you know where your children are?” This was a public service announcement used in the late 1960s through the late 1980s to remind parents to check up on their kids. Today, parents usually know...

Parenting With Purpose: How To Disciple Your Kids At Home
Parenting With Purpose: How To Disciple Your Kids At Home

One of our principal ministries as parents is discipling those who God has placed in our family. We are aware of this responsibility, and we usually have the “want to.” But the “how to” might seem overwhelming. We must not let our feelings of incompetence lead us to...

Why You Should Attend the D6 Conference 2025
Why You Should Attend the D6 Conference 2025

As we approach 2025, there’s a palpable excitement in the air, especially for those who are deeply invested in family ministry. The D6 Conference 2025 is just around the corner, and this event promises to be more than just a gathering—it's a transformative experience....

5 Things a Youth Pastor Will Gain from Seminary
5 Things a Youth Pastor Will Gain from Seminary

You’re already busy and on the front lines of youth ministry, so why go to seminary now? Denise Muir Kjesbo, Bethel Seminary’s children’s, youth, and family ministry program director, along with Heather Flies, the program’s youth ministry advisor, weigh in on five...

Happiness Is Not the Goal
Happiness Is Not the Goal

You hear it all around you, "I just want them to be happy." It’s many a parent’s desire for their kids, but it’s worth asking if this is the right goal. Think over your adult life. I’m willing to bet that happiness has been fleeting. Maybe you catch a glimpse when you...

Everyday Families Making a Global Impact
Everyday Families Making a Global Impact

Sarah spent her days chasing after two energetic boys under age five. Making sure they had clean clothes, healthy food, and afternoon naps sapped all her strength. Motherhood had quenched the flame in her heart to take God’s love to the world. Surely God did not want...

9 Keys to a Healthier Marriage
9 Keys to a Healthier Marriage

Experiencing a strong, vibrant, and healthy marriage didn’t stop with your marriage vows and the commitment you made to each other on your wedding day—it goes beyond that in the way you live out your commitment to each other in your day-to-day lives. Continuing to...

What Kind of Boundaries Will Protect My Child’s Mental Health?
What Kind of Boundaries Will Protect My Child’s Mental Health?

“Boundaries” has become a buzzword in parenting. Boundaries are necessary for a balanced, responsible life. The smartphone has blown the lid off of every boundary imaginable in ways we could never have anticipated. This great social experiment has the majority of the...

The Hard Work of Disciplemaking With Guys
The Hard Work of Disciplemaking With Guys

(Excerpt from Chapter 1 of Disciplemaking With Guys) One Sunday night I was late for our high school guys' Bible study. When I came into the room, the guys were playing catch with a baseball they had made from playdough. When I asked them to put it away, Trevor asked,...

Helping Your Child Learn Self-Control
Helping Your Child Learn Self-Control

Learning self-control is a lifelong process, and you should look at each day as an opportunity to help your child continually grow in self-control. What can you do to help him or her?  Model self-control. Yelling at your child for yelling at his sibling is not...

Voices
Voices

I feel like I need to start with a couple of confessions. Confession is not only good for the soul, but it also brings clarity of purpose when it comes to living for Christ. So, here are my confessions. When I first became a dad, I realized I had more shortcomings...