Enfleshment

Enfleshment

Every religion has a sacred book. Only Christianity has the incarnation, which literally means “en-flesh-ment.” God became a flesh-and-blood human being to reveal Himself to us in a way written words could not accomplish. The gospel of John tells us that “the Word...
In Praise of Inefficiency

In Praise of Inefficiency

I saw something beautiful the other day while walking down Breckenridge Lane. In a front yard not far from my home, a young mother was removing a layer of sodden leaves from a flower bed in preparation for planting—an ordinary activity in the middle of an ordinary...
Allow Yourself Grace

Allow Yourself Grace

I admit I really need to have a plan. It is truly about survival for this single mom of two. So when I got the opportunity to read Brian Haynes’ book, The Legacy Path, I knew I would find a good parenting plan. Brian is the creator of “The Legacy Milestones” and has...
Control or Inspire

Control or Inspire

How do you lead? Do you need a large set of rules, policies, and constant supervision? It is true people respect what you inspect. Many people over manage others to a point the process outweighs the purpose. How comfortable is your leadership style to give others some...
Holes in Your Parachute

Holes in Your Parachute

Seems like a lifetime ago now, but there was time when I jumped from perfectly good airplanes. The Army trained me and paid extra money for me to be on jump status. I was a parachute rigger before I became an infantry officer. A parachute rigger is the soldier who...
5 Reasons Not to Do Family Ministry

5 Reasons Not to Do Family Ministry

Many churches are jumping on the Holy Spirit powered reformation of family ministry. Unfortunately, some are exploring family ministry for the wrong reasons. Here are five reasons NOT to build a family ministry in your church. The majority of children and teens...
2 Reasons Why Perfect Parenting Won’t Work

2 Reasons Why Perfect Parenting Won’t Work

I was blessed to grow up as a pastor’s kid. That’s right, I was blessed to have the parents I have. Some seem to resent the fact they grew up as a PK, but I do not. Not that I’m better than other PKs; just that although there were times I wish we...